Written by families who have been through it
Placement change: when they want to move P
A proposed move by the council, the ICB or the care home is one of the most frightening moments for a family. This page sets out what to do first, how to argue best interests properly, when to go to court urgently, and the mistakes that cost families credibility.
Keep every message about P — their needs, their voice, their safety. Judges decide in P's best interests, not on who has been treated unfairly. The calmest, most factual family in the room is usually the most persuasive one.
Your first 48 hours
Nothing here needs a solicitor. Work through it in order and tick as you go — your progress is saved on this device only.
First 48 hours
0 of 6 doneThe best interests checklist
Section 4 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005 is the test. Answer these in writing and you have the spine of a position statement.
Best interests evidence
0 of 7 doneWording you can copy
Asking for the move to be paused
Dear [name], Thank you for telling me about the proposed move of [P's initials] to [placement]. Please confirm in writing: 1. Who has made this decision and under what legal authority; 2. The capacity assessment relied on for this specific decision about where P lives, and its date; 3. The options considered and why each was ruled out; 4. The date and time of the best interests meeting under s.4 MCA 2005 that I will be invited to. Until that meeting has taken place I ask that no move is arranged. If the move proceeds without it, I will ask the Court of Protection to consider the matter. Yours sincerely, [Your name], [relationship to P]
Recording your objection after a meeting
Dear [name], Thank you for the meeting on [date]. So there is a clear record, my position is: - P communicates [how]. In my view P shows [reaction] to the proposal because [evidence]. - The less restrictive option I have suggested is [option], which has not yet been costed or trialled. - The impact on contact would be [detail: travel time, frequency]. - The professionals I ask to be consulted in writing are [OT / SALT / psychiatrist / GP]. I do not agree to the move at this stage. Please treat this email as my formal objection and place it on P's file. Yours sincerely, [Your name]
Use initials or a pseudonym for P in anything you send or share. This is general information from families, not legal advice.
When to go to court urgently
Signs it is urgent
- The move is happening within days and no best interests meeting has been held.
- P is being moved out of area, away from family, and contact will be reduced.
- The home has given short notice and the council has only found one option.
- P is clearly distressed and the risk of a rushed move is not being assessed.
- You have raised concerns in writing and had no substantive reply within a working week.
Your routes
- Section 21A challenge (RPR or P). If P is under a DoLS authorisation, this challenges the deprivation and where it happens. Usually non-means-tested legal aid.
- COP1 + COP3 + COP24. A welfare application asking the court to decide where P lives, with a witness statement.
- COP9 with an urgent request. If proceedings already exist, apply within them and ask for an urgent listing or an interim order that no move takes place until the hearing.
- Ask for an interim order. Say plainly what you want: "an order that P remains at [home] until the court has determined the issue."
What not to do
- Do not remove P yourself or refuse to return them after a visit — it can look like you are the risk.
- Do not threaten to sue, or run a complaint and a court case at the same time, unless a solicitor advises it. Judges want cooperation, not war.
- Do not post about the placement, the staff or the home on social media. It can breach transparency orders and harden positions.
- Do not argue every point. Choose the two or three that matter most to P.
- Do not send angry emails at midnight. Write it, sleep on it, send a factual version in the morning.
If the move has already happened
It is not too late
The court can still decide where P should live and can order a return. Act quickly and keep a diary of how P is settling or struggling.
Evidence the impact
Weight, sleep, seizures, incidents, distress behaviours, missed appointments, reduced contact. Dates and numbers, not adjectives.
Ask for a review
Request a formal review meeting at 4 and 12 weeks, plus a new DoLS assessment if P is deprived of their liberty in the new setting.
Keep contact going
Ask for a written contact plan. If contact is being restricted, that is itself something the court can decide.
Use the complaints route carefully
A complaint can run where there are no live proceedings. If you are in court, tell your solicitor first.
Look after yourself
This is exhausting. Share the load, take breaks, and ask an advocate or a peer support group to sit in on meetings with you.
General information written by families with lived experience of the Court of Protection. It is not legal advice and does not replace advice about your own case.